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when the person you are interested in plays mind games.
During that time, I had suffered from a particularly experience with a woman. ) that would make Jennifer Lopez turn green with envy, I thought she was a real keeper.
If you want to play mind games, by all means play on.
Stop treating dating like a game or a necessary evil you have to endure (to get to heaven) and instead see it as a journey of self-discovery. I understand that this may be rather radical for some, and have been told by a few people that it’s “a cultural thing”.
Take time to get to know yourself and work on the unhealthy residues from your past that may be driving your choices and actions; challenge yourself to do some of the things you’re most afraid to do; meet people and allow others to get to know the real you; accept that life isn’t always fair and things will not always go your way but that happens to everyone; don’t take yourself too seriously and don’t expect others to be perfect; be flexible, spontaneous and have fun! Show that you’re approachable, friendly, interested and interesting, intriguing, good company and relationship-worthy.1) If you’re interested in a guy, let him know.2) If you want to go out with him, ask him out.3) If a guy asks you out and you want to go, go. Surely openness, honesty, integrity, truthfulness, authenticity, sensitivity, fairness, thoughtfulness and self-respect can’t just be a “cultural thing”. Unless of course, you have nothing much to offer in terms of a real fulfilling relationship, then may be it makes sense to manipulate others into thinking you’re who you’re not!
It can get in the way of a deep meaningful relationship.
Dawn asked: Why do guys bother with the mind games? There could be a number of reasons why guys or girls play mind games, and sometimes they don’t even know they are playing games because they are so unaware of their own needs, much less yours. It is the way they go about getting those needs met that can be selfish and hurtful. It’s very important for the person who’s playing mind games with you to know that you know the game is being played. Read about how to “have a meaningful relationship here.