Dating outside the box
But then, all my previous monogamous relationships were like that too.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. He better get on board for counseling and address his wife’s unhappiness, or get booted from the ride.first thing you have to do is decide if you still want a best friend and if you do MYOB until he asks you for help ...you want to be best friends with his wife then by all means go ahead and talk to him .there are always three sides to a story .side ,his side and the truth ..far you have only heard one third of a story and want to act upon it ....hmmmm ...wouldn't be mebikebowman, i have been blind-sided in the same way by someone close .. and when it comes, they bottle it all up for no one to see ..
But conversely, it's easy for people who don't know much about my personal life to make a lot of assumptions about my marriage, which are not true, whereas people who know about my other relationship are more likely to ask questions rather than assume.
Neither relationship style has many role models I can draw on, so both are to a large extent being invented as we go along.
Wait, I meant to say that is what you shouldn't do... I understand you wanting to get in there and "express to him that she wants to save this marriage" but those words need to come out of her mouth - not yours.He is a great friend..grew up together and have kept close for 35 years. I hope he see's the light and gets into counseling.According to her he says he will not go because there is no problem. First thing I need to do is get inside my best friends head. Second thing I need to express to him is, she wants to save this marriage. It is a private matter, until it becomes overwhelming. Ultimately it's up to him to straighten up and fly right. It's hard to admit to others that you made a bad choice of partner and that is also what keeps many people from telling others. If you tell him and he continues along his same path and they break up, you will at least know that you tried to save the train wreck.